
The re-imagined story …
Every week I watched my mum put a penny on the mantlepiece and then I watched her struggle to pay her bills through the rest of the week. A penny went a long way in those days, but that penny would stay on the mantlepiece until Mrs Morse called to collect it. Mum never missed a week.
I knew mum’s brother Ernie had died in the Great War – what we were now calling the First World War. Most Swindon families had lost a loved one. Just twenty years had passed and the grief was still raw.
There were a couple of photographs of Ernie that hung on the parlour wall during my childhood. One of him at a family wedding and another of him in uniform just before he left for France. Looking back, I wonder why I didn’t know his story, I just knew he had died in the war. I suppose mum wanted to remember him as he lived not as he died.
It was years afterwards, when Mr Preater died, that I understood why mum saved her precious pennies and I discovered how my uncle Ernie had died.
Ernie had enlisted with the 1st Wilts at the outbreak of war. He had survived numerous, hard fought battles but was eventually caught and taken prisoner. The conditions in the German Prisoner of War camps were appalling, the men were half starved, kept alive only by the food parcels sent by the Swindon Committee for the Provision of Comforts for the Wiltshire Regiment and later the Red Cross.
Ironically, Ernie was put to work on railway buildings behind the German lines until, suffering from malnutrition and exhaustion, he became too weak to work. At the end of the war the prisoners were released, left to find their own way home, their health destroyed. Men like Charles Haggard who died within weeks of his return. Ernie didn’t even make it home.
The Duke of Gloucester’s Red Cross Penny a Week Fund was established in 1939 to support the various services provided by the Red Cross. My mum gave up her pennies to help another woman’s loved one survive a prisoner of war camp and come home.

The facts …
Harry Charles Preater is buried with his wife Lilian in plot D65A close to the cemetery chapel. Harry was the eldest of Charles and Mary Jane’s nine children and when he left school he began work as a clerk. He later went on to run the family garage at Whale Bridge.

Harry was also a prominent Mason, a member of the Calley Lodge No 7525 that used to meet at the Corn Exchange. Harry C. Preater was Provincial Secretary from 1942 to 1951 and Deputy Provincial Grand Master from 1952 to 1966.
During the Second World War Harry and his wife Lilian played an active role in the Red Cross. Lilian was the Honorary Commandant of the 68th Wilts Detachment of the British Red Cross and Harry was Secretary of the Swindon Penny a Week Fund which raised £16,500 towards supporting prisoners of war.

Harry died in 1968 but his name lived on in the Harry C. Preater Masonic Lodge. The Consecration Ceremony took place that same year at the Civil Defence Centre, Savernake Street, Swindon and the banquet was held in the Civil Defence garage. The Lodge then held its meetings at the Masonic Hall, The Square, finally moving to the Planks when that building was completed.
Lilian died in 1970 aged 90. She was buried with her husband and Harry’s sister Ada.






























